Posts Tagged ‘true love’

Unconditional love…

In RELATIONSHIP TIPS on April 23, 2014 at 9:34 am

We can love someone and just be happy about it even if we know that it cannot last forever. It is not about having someone. It is not about owning a relationship; it is just about being happy because you know you have loved someone. There is a purpose and meaning behind all events and this purpose and meanings develop you as a person and a lover. Whatever relationship you have in your life now, they are precisely the ones you need at this moment.

It is truly sad that true love is hard to come by these days.

In RELATIONSHIP TIPS on November 7, 2013 at 2:47 pm

Men often lie to make women believe them while women clothe themselves with makeup just so men will see them as beautiful.

I always view love as a treasure that is so hard to find. That’s why I don’t easily choose someone. He might hide his true identity.. I don’t want to be deceive by a stone for I have been there, once. But no matter what I’ve been through in the past, I still believe in true love. I believe that somewhere, my true love is just there and one of these days, we’ll meet in the right time with the right reason without forcing anything. And that time, I can finally say that he is the right one for me; the one who’s my match, the one who will accept the whole me, the one who wont judge me, the one who stays no matter what storms we will be facing. Because I believe that the best kind of love is when a man or a woman sees you for who you really are and yet still chooses to love you despite of your flaws.

 I guess, that’s one of the reasons why it’s so hard to find true love, for true love corresponds true feelings…. And true feelings these days are rare. – Super Anj


In Advice about Life, Advice on Letting Go on May 24, 2013 at 4:53 pm

For those who have lost any of their loved ones, or friends


As a matter of fact, nobody ever dies. because they’re gonna live inside everybody who ever knew them. Everyone they ever touched, no matter how little, and the people who love them, their families and friends, they’re never gonna stop thinking about them or talking about them. They’re never gonna die because they were loved and they loved. They’re going to live forever in your heart, as death doesn’t put an end to love.

Are You Ready for Love?


A good relationship isn’t a game you play or an ego trip you take. It is about love
and two people. Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and
it can hurt more than we can believe too. When it does not really hurt when that
person did something disappointing to you, but really hurts when you see that
person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly love that person.

Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at
the same time. That’s the reward and that’s the risk. Unless we are willing to
experience it, we will never really know what it’s like to love and be loved.

Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person
can ever have. And there’s a difference between being in love with someone and
loving someone. It’s the difference between a love that’s fickle, wild and
short-lived and one that’s tender and passionate, nurturing and lasts a long time.
The first is easy. The second, the one that really matters to all of us, takes
work — because it’s about keeping a relationship.

Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with each other.
Nobody can read anyone else’s mind. We always presume that our partner knows what
we think and feel. Maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other’s
thoughts but it’s never perfect and takes time to develop.

Getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is blessed. Respect
him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be. Everyone
is pretty and special in his/her own special way. No one is perfect. It is
true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface
of acceptance for each other. True love sees and accepts a person for who
he/she is. It is also true love which makes a person change for the better.

The power of true love to a person is undeniable.

A relationship needs commitments too. What is love without commitments
from each other anyway? It’s like principles and values. Everyone has
them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them.

The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we love.

“Love is like an antique vase. It’s hard to find, hard to get, but easy to break.”

Every day everywhere, people fall in love…but just how many of these
relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships
which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love?
I know hundreds of friends who say the magical words “I love you”…
but more often than not, the truth is just — I am IN love with you.
There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving
someone. If a person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means
that he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love
with you because of the present you.

This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the fairytale lasts.
When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us back to reality, we see
the heartache of such a relationship…where both were only IN love with each other.

But if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that he/she
loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in
the past and who you might be in the future. When he/she says he/she
loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love
him/her too or if you’re in love with the idea of being in love.
It is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking.
Let your heart guide you. May you be blessed on
your soul-searching journey for your soulmate.

To Love Like I Love the Rain

In PHOTOS, Random, Reflection on May 7, 2012 at 9:46 am




I wonder if I can love people the same way I love rain:
To be in love with someone madly yet selflessly. To let the other person be mad, crazy, beautiful, unpredictable and soothing without having to pin them down and make them have to stay. To just be happy each time he or she is there and to be happier still when they stay the week, and to not be sad when they go away because you know they’re coming back. To love the person and expect nothing in return except to know the person is being himself or herself. And finally to know that there are also people whom that person touches in his or her own way, making others fall in love with them too. So you have to share freely and happily, at the same time knowing you are special and that no two people can love the person quite the same way.