Posts Tagged ‘pain’

A reason for everything!

In Advice about Life on May 24, 2013 at 4:51 pm

Life doesn’t always introduce you to the people you want to meet.

Sometimes life puts you in touch with the people you need to meet – to help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you, and to gradually strengthen you into the person you were meant to become


Behind the laughter..

In Random Thoughts on February 23, 2013 at 2:18 am

Sometimes we always try our best to act like it’s okay even if it kills us inside. We have to cover our true feelings not because we know we are strong and brave but because we have to save ourselves from humiliation and we think saving our pride from the people who took us for granted is the last option for us to help ourselves. We think, our pride is the only thing left for us because some people just don’t care about our hearts that we offer to them. And so, we laugh like we are fine, joke like we don’t care about they’ve done and we show them that we’re not broken even if deep inside, our heart’s bleeding.


In Reflection on January 11, 2013 at 12:50 pm

I won’t hurt you
I won’t leave you
You’re the only one
I won’t forget you
I won’t do it again
I’ll change for the better
I’ll take good care of your heart
I’ll be back for you

When Love and Hate Collides…

In Poetry on January 9, 2013 at 2:11 pm

Feelings make you ambivalent,

Hatred on the face painted.

Feelings are traitorous,

Love can be so mysterious.

When Love and hate collides,

Pain and agony never hide.

From the darkening of the cloud,

Storms, never fear, don’t shout loud.

In every storm, a rainbow in the cloud,

Waiting for you, don’t be too proud.

Sadness from yesterday,

Triumph for today,

Victorious for tomorrow,

That is the true glory,

Be true to your feelings,

Never hide,

Even if Love and hate collides.

Answers will prevail,

Pain will heal;

Be strong and face the tomorrow,


Even if Love and hate collides.

Letting Go.

In Advice on Letting Go, Love Quotes, Relationship Quotes, RELATIONSHIP TIPS on December 11, 2012 at 9:59 am


Once you remember, tears will fall. true love is not about feelings.. Its a Commitment. like your willing to prove to her and say. I will Love you. not just Love you cause of how i feel. we all gotta go through struggles which makes us a stronger person.


In PHOTOS, Reflection on April 16, 2012 at 1:33 pm


Sometimes you need to be deaf for the sake of somebody. You need to be intensive to lessen the pain. You need to smile for the strength of others. And sometimes, you just need to stop because you are tired of everything.”


In Advice about Life, Reflection on April 13, 2012 at 11:59 pm

Pain is an can prevent it by accepting the reality that all the things that you desire is not always intended for you..♥

The DONT’s and DO’s after a Break-up

In Advice on Letting Go, MOTIVATIONAL TIPS on April 13, 2012 at 4:21 pm


Breaking up is hard and moving on is even harder. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people.   Your heart at this moment might probably be yearning for the best way to get over this breakup and then to either decide to move on or get back together with your ex. Those feelings that you never understand, crashing your heart slowly. So many unanswered questions in your mind that made you a zombie because of sleep deprivation. We’ve all been there, waiting for answers that never came and wasting precious time trying to get that closure from an ex who just wasn’t willing to give it.

There’s no easy way to move-on. But when you let the time and your effort to work, you will pass everything that you’ve been through. Whether it was a long drawn-out breakup or one that ended abruptly without warning, below are some tips on how to move on to bigger and better things—specifically a new you.

Let the healing begin 🙂

The DONT’S :

  1. Avoid the former/past love. Yes, avoid. No, this isn’t being immature. Seeing your former flame can bring out emotions and may cause you do to or say something you will regret. In the first few weeks the best thing you can do for yourself is not be where you know they will be.
  2. No harassing or stalking of your ex. While there is obviously a fine line between harassing and stalking your ex, neither will help in endearing you to your ex. The best these will do is make you look like a pathetic loser who they prefer to be far away from.
  3. A  Giving up. Most people lose the love of their life simply by giving up too soon before they’ve made any significant attempt at getting back together with their ex. You need to understand that it’s going to take some amount of work and commitment to doing things the right way.

The DO’s :

  1. Focus on yourself. Love yourself. Value yourself. Focus on a hobby and other things you like that you probably have not had time to engage in while with your ex. However, try and avoid activities that are likely to remind you of him or her especially those both you frequently engaged in together.
  2. B+ (Be Positive). To be a survivor after a break-up requires that you need to look forward and not constantly looking back to how good you feel you had it going. If you were in a loving long-term relationship, you are definitely not going to get over the breakup overnight as time is the only factor that can help you come to terms with the breakup. While you might need to reflect on and process the breakup, you do not necessarily have to spend too much time over this process. Come to terms with its reality and move on.
  3. Talk out your feelings with close friends. Things will be far easier for you to seek advice from third parties who have experience about what you are going through. You may also need a shoulder to cry on during this period. Talk to your friends and let it all out instead of bottling up what you are feeling inside. Doing all these will help you heal quicker and to be able to move on.
  4. Focus on all the things about your ex that drove you crazy, turned you off, or that you just plain found annoying. Think about these things often and replay them in your mind over and over. Dwell on them. It will make you feel better to remember that your former flame was not perfect and that there are things you won’t really miss.
  5. Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick with it. Don’t pass notes through friends. Don’t make any calls. Stay away from instant messaging or texting on your cell. Just don’t contact your ex until you are totally and completely sure you no longer want to be with him or her. It is the only way.
  6. Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your ex may have done in your relationship. Really give these things play in your memory. Remind yourself that somebody who truly cared for you would not have done such thoughtless things and tell yourself (over and over) that you are better off without that kind of ego crushing behavior in your life.
  7.  It’s OK to cry over a loss. Don’t hold back, let the tears roll just do it in a safe and private place where it is unlikely to get back to your ex.

Mending a broken heart is hard but it is possible. Just stick to the game plan outlined above and before you know it you’ll be just fine. Good luck and God bless! 🙂