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One of the hardest things to do…is to TRUST

In Advice on Letting Go on November 7, 2013 at 2:52 pm

 Especially when those whom you TRUSTED the most were those who betrayed you.  

I’m not going to deny it nor object but I wanna add more about it. Once the trust is gone, it will never be the same again. Maybe you can forgive the person but you can never bring it back no matter how much you’ve tried. A relationship with no trust anymore, is like a rust..useless. So, I am very careful of giving my trust now for it’s so hard to lose people that were once closed to you.

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The act of being brave…

In Advice about Life, Advice on Letting Go on April 2, 2013 at 9:46 am

To let go isn’t to forget, not to think about, or ignore. It doesn’t leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. Letting go isn’t about winning or losing. It’s not about pride and it’s not about how you appear, and it’s not obsessing or dwelling on the past. Letting go isn’t blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness. It’s not about giving in or giving up. Letting go isn’t about loss and it’s not about defeat. To let go is to cherish the memories, to overcome and move on. Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing. To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow. It’s about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving.

FORGIVE & FORGET

In Advice on Letting Go, AUTHOR's ADVENTURE, RELATIONSHIP TIPS on August 16, 2012 at 4:34 am

 

 

 

The key to moving on is not to find someone else, but to take a step back and look at the big picture that everyone else saw except you.

 

Dear diary,

Last night, my cousin texted me and asked for some tips on how to forget someone who you don’t want to forget. Oh dang!

I was like.. !@#@$#%^%&^$&.

It’s harder than a math problem.. well, she knows that I am the the author of the blog “FACING THE RAINBOW”  – wherein I usually give some tips on moving on..

So, I called her what’s the matter. I discovered that her almost 4-year relationship suddenly ended in just a blink. I told her to give me time to answer her question..because…. I was busy with our lola’s bday. Unfortunately, she(my cousin) wasn’t able to attend the bday.

Andddddd…

nowww…..

I remember the time when I was the one who was at her place right now.

I remember that forgetting is hard if you yourself hasn’t forgive yourself first before the person who hurt you. So, first thing first, forgive yourself 🙂

next is,in order to forget someone who broke your heart is to heal your hurt ego and fix your self esteem.. 🙂

FORGETTING someone is a long-way process, so it takes time and patience. ^_^

 

And here are the things to remember:

 

Healing your Ego shouldn’t be done by revenge or by hating the person because both solutions will let you become a resentful person. Healing your Ego can be done by showing that person that he has a lost a treasure (which is you). This isn’t a quick solution but it’s the one that will surely work. Direct all the anger you have towards motivating yourself to become better and better, sooner or later your news will reach the person who broke your heart and he will realize his loss.

 

Sometimes people fail to recover from breakups because of self esteem issues and not because of loving the person who dumped them!!

 

And lastly, Stop thinking about him and LET GO

I know its hard but instead of thinking 100% of the time, make it only 10% then 5% then 0% then stop doing it!!  🙂

 

 

Im going to call her back later.. just sharing it first here on my tumbleblog so people who has the same situation with my cousin can also read some tips that might be helpful to them 😉

 

CHEER UP ND SMILE. LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL AFTERALL ❤

 

disclaimer: not the actual  picture,

photo credits: favim.com