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A reason for everything!

In Advice about Life on May 24, 2013 at 4:51 pm

Life doesn’t always introduce you to the people you want to meet.

Sometimes life puts you in touch with the people you need to meet – to help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you, and to gradually strengthen you into the person you were meant to become

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The act of being brave…

In Advice about Life, Advice on Letting Go on April 2, 2013 at 9:46 am

To let go isn’t to forget, not to think about, or ignore. It doesn’t leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. Letting go isn’t about winning or losing. It’s not about pride and it’s not about how you appear, and it’s not obsessing or dwelling on the past. Letting go isn’t blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness. It’s not about giving in or giving up. Letting go isn’t about loss and it’s not about defeat. To let go is to cherish the memories, to overcome and move on. Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing. To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow. It’s about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving.

Never chase happiness..

In Advice about Life, Advice on Letting Go, RELATIONSHIP TIPS on December 7, 2012 at 10:18 am

(I originally posted this on my other WordPress page)

Happiness is like a butterfly; the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder…

— Henry David Thoreau

Precisely!

 

This quote is one of my favorite quotations of all time. For me, this is all about freedom of someone you like or love that no matter how you love them to be with you, you have to set them free even if it means hurting your own self because SOMEDAY, IT WILL BE OKAY. Ironically, happiness, according to the quote, is described as setting someone free. Do you think we will be happy if we set things/people who we love SOOO MUCH free and away from us?

 

NO.

 

However, it also helps us realize that if we will force them, there’s a greater chance that forcing them will make them avoid us more as if we have a communicable disease. Hence, we have to set them free and just wait for the right time they will return (if ever); if not, then that would mean we have to enjoy or focus on the other things we have in our life. For an instance, letting go of a gf/bf is such a heartbreaking thing, right? And so you’ll try your best to win them back, without knowing that it will force them to dodge more. SAD REALITY. But if you try yourself on focusing on other things like making a better you, with one step at a time, you will be able to move-on and guess what? Your ex might return if in case, you’re meant to be. Another example is, getting what you really want like being accepted to the school you want to be in. If a situation never allows you, it might be a terrible experience, but, if you will wait for the right time, then a better school might offer you a chance and that would mean a better opportunity.

 

Ultimately, what I am trying to emphasize is that we never knew what the tide brings so never settle for less and open your eyes to some better views other than what you see because you can achieve happiness, if only, you will allow yourself to be happy and change your negative perception. SOMEDAY, IT WILL BE OKAY 🙂

Every day is a new chance to choose.

In Advice about Life, PHOTOS on April 14, 2012 at 4:31 am

Every day is a new chance to choose.

Every day is a new chance to choose.
Choose to change your perspective.
Choose to flip the switch in your mind. Turn on the light and stop fretting about with insecurity and doubt.
Choose to do your work and be free of distraction.
Choose to see the best in someone, or choose to bring out the worst in them.
Choose to be a laser beam, with focused intention, or a scattered ray of light that doesn’t do any good.

~Ishita Gupta

TIPS ON HOW TO ENJOY LIFE TO THE FULLEST

In Advice about Life, MOTIVATIONAL TIPS on April 14, 2012 at 2:00 am

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Life is like a 1000 page book. You want to quit halfway through, but then you realize you have a lot left to look forward to.” — Unknown

You are reading this blog because you want to know the TIPS ON HOW TO ENJOY LIFE TO THE FULLEST. 

Life has a lot of simple things you can enjoy. But if you move too fast you will overlook most of them, so make it ONE STEP AT A TIME. Don’t be in hurry, slow down and see the world around you, as it’s truly an amazing place. Taking time to see things as they are – beautiful, awe inspiring, almost magical in a way, will help you pause and take less for granted the life you had before. In this way you will enjoy life a little bit more.

  1.  Endeavor to change the way you look at things. Always look at the bright side. Don’t let your mind think negativities and difficulties. Look at the good and positive side of every situation.
  2. Watch your thoughts. Whenever you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts, start thinking of pleasant and desirable things.
  3. Enjoy your meal. Don’t just eat. Taste it and appreciate its richness.
  4. Feel and play  the music ,not just listen to it. More than just listening, playing music allows you to express yourself like playing guitar or a piano.
  5.  Think of solutions, not problems.
  6. Each day do something good for yourself. It can be something small, such buying a book, reading a few pages of an inspiring book or article, eating something you love, watching you favorite program on TV, going to a movie,taking pictures, getting a massage or just having a stroll on the beach.
  7. Watch funny comedies that make you laugh.
  8.  Each day do at least one act to make others happy. When you make someone happy, you become happy, and then people try to make you happy.
  9. Always look at what you have done and not at what you haven’t.
  10. Browse your photo album for your treasured memories.
  11. Do not envy people who are happy. On the contrary, be happy for their happiness.
  12. Always expect happiness.
  13.  Associate with happy people, and try to learn from them to be happy. Keep it in your mind that happiness is contagious.
  14. Smile more often.
  15. DON’T EXPECT. Expectation leads to disappointments.

To wrap up everything, life is a gift from God. Treasure it, Love it. Live it because life is too short to waste time on negativities and difficulties. ENJOY and have fun. 😀

REFLECTION

In Advice about Life, Reflection on April 13, 2012 at 11:59 pm

Pain is an option..you can prevent it by accepting the reality that all the things that you desire is not always intended for you..♥

The DONT’s and DO’s after a Break-up

In Advice on Letting Go, MOTIVATIONAL TIPS on April 13, 2012 at 4:21 pm

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Breaking up is hard and moving on is even harder. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people.   Your heart at this moment might probably be yearning for the best way to get over this breakup and then to either decide to move on or get back together with your ex. Those feelings that you never understand, crashing your heart slowly. So many unanswered questions in your mind that made you a zombie because of sleep deprivation. We’ve all been there, waiting for answers that never came and wasting precious time trying to get that closure from an ex who just wasn’t willing to give it.

There’s no easy way to move-on. But when you let the time and your effort to work, you will pass everything that you’ve been through. Whether it was a long drawn-out breakup or one that ended abruptly without warning, below are some tips on how to move on to bigger and better things—specifically a new you.

Let the healing begin 🙂

The DONT’S :

  1. Avoid the former/past love. Yes, avoid. No, this isn’t being immature. Seeing your former flame can bring out emotions and may cause you do to or say something you will regret. In the first few weeks the best thing you can do for yourself is not be where you know they will be.
  2. No harassing or stalking of your ex. While there is obviously a fine line between harassing and stalking your ex, neither will help in endearing you to your ex. The best these will do is make you look like a pathetic loser who they prefer to be far away from.
  3. A  Giving up. Most people lose the love of their life simply by giving up too soon before they’ve made any significant attempt at getting back together with their ex. You need to understand that it’s going to take some amount of work and commitment to doing things the right way.

The DO’s :

  1. Focus on yourself. Love yourself. Value yourself. Focus on a hobby and other things you like that you probably have not had time to engage in while with your ex. However, try and avoid activities that are likely to remind you of him or her especially those both you frequently engaged in together.
  2. B+ (Be Positive). To be a survivor after a break-up requires that you need to look forward and not constantly looking back to how good you feel you had it going. If you were in a loving long-term relationship, you are definitely not going to get over the breakup overnight as time is the only factor that can help you come to terms with the breakup. While you might need to reflect on and process the breakup, you do not necessarily have to spend too much time over this process. Come to terms with its reality and move on.
  3. Talk out your feelings with close friends. Things will be far easier for you to seek advice from third parties who have experience about what you are going through. You may also need a shoulder to cry on during this period. Talk to your friends and let it all out instead of bottling up what you are feeling inside. Doing all these will help you heal quicker and to be able to move on.
  4. Focus on all the things about your ex that drove you crazy, turned you off, or that you just plain found annoying. Think about these things often and replay them in your mind over and over. Dwell on them. It will make you feel better to remember that your former flame was not perfect and that there are things you won’t really miss.
  5. Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick with it. Don’t pass notes through friends. Don’t make any calls. Stay away from instant messaging or texting on your cell. Just don’t contact your ex until you are totally and completely sure you no longer want to be with him or her. It is the only way.
  6. Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your ex may have done in your relationship. Really give these things play in your memory. Remind yourself that somebody who truly cared for you would not have done such thoughtless things and tell yourself (over and over) that you are better off without that kind of ego crushing behavior in your life.
  7.  It’s OK to cry over a loss. Don’t hold back, let the tears roll just do it in a safe and private place where it is unlikely to get back to your ex.

Mending a broken heart is hard but it is possible. Just stick to the game plan outlined above and before you know it you’ll be just fine. Good luck and God bless! 🙂

Advice about Life

In Advice about Life on April 13, 2012 at 3:35 pm

Memories are something we all hold onto. Keep the GOOD ones. Let go of the Bad ones. Make room for the NEW ones.

Reflection

In Reflection on April 13, 2012 at 2:41 pm

Sometimes things don’t happen the way we want it.But after the pain, failure and disappointment, we become stronger in a way those things are Blessings.

Don`t ever regret meeting…

In Love Quotes on April 13, 2012 at 12:09 pm

Don`t ever regret meeting anyone in life, one day you will realize they taught you the most important lesson in your life!