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Unconditional love…

In RELATIONSHIP TIPS on April 23, 2014 at 9:34 am

We can love someone and just be happy about it even if we know that it cannot last forever. It is not about having someone. It is not about owning a relationship; it is just about being happy because you know you have loved someone. There is a purpose and meaning behind all events and this purpose and meanings develop you as a person and a lover. Whatever relationship you have in your life now, they are precisely the ones you need at this moment.


It is truly sad that true love is hard to come by these days.

In RELATIONSHIP TIPS on November 7, 2013 at 2:47 pm

Men often lie to make women believe them while women clothe themselves with makeup just so men will see them as beautiful.

I always view love as a treasure that is so hard to find. That’s why I don’t easily choose someone. He might hide his true identity.. I don’t want to be deceive by a stone for I have been there, once. But no matter what I’ve been through in the past, I still believe in true love. I believe that somewhere, my true love is just there and one of these days, we’ll meet in the right time with the right reason without forcing anything. And that time, I can finally say that he is the right one for me; the one who’s my match, the one who will accept the whole me, the one who wont judge me, the one who stays no matter what storms we will be facing. Because I believe that the best kind of love is when a man or a woman sees you for who you really are and yet still chooses to love you despite of your flaws.

 I guess, that’s one of the reasons why it’s so hard to find true love, for true love corresponds true feelings…. And true feelings these days are rare. – Super Anj

Even If, What If

In RELATIONSHIP TIPS on February 23, 2013 at 2:30 am

Even if she sometimes annoys you, even if you’re tired from her non-stop talking and reminding about stuffs, even if she is such a crying baby every time you two watch movies together and you actually think it’s pathetic, even if she’s very sentimental about small things that you believe it’s stupid ..never ever try hurting her because of that stupid reasons for you might realize one day, everything you hate about her will make you miss and look for it once it’s gone.

Nothing is constant except change…and once she’ll get tired because of the pain you’ve inflicted upon her..then that will be the time you’re gonna learn your lesson.

What if she wont ask about you anymore like what’s goin’ on with your life or where you are at the moment.. she just doesn’t give a damn care about you,all of a sudden, would you be bothered? What if she won’t remind you anymore about your meals, vitamins, important stuffs that you always forgot..would you miss her non-stop talking? What if she won’t like watching movies with you and would rather watch it with her friends because they can understand her more than you, would you be happy with that? What if she won’t care about those important things you’ve given, forgot those memorable dates and places and most especially, she won’t even try making your birthday special… are you going to be glad about it? If those changes will happen all of a sudden, will you be annoyed or the contrary?

The answer is up to you. Just remember that even if you don’t have any ROMANTIC DNA and you’re the most dumb boyfriend in the world, she loves you wholeheartedly and unconditionally. Therefore, never ever try hurting her, respect her, love her… because you’ll only meet one kind of girl like her who is patiently loving a person like you. 🙂

Letting Go.

In Advice on Letting Go, Love Quotes, Relationship Quotes, RELATIONSHIP TIPS on December 11, 2012 at 9:59 am


Once you remember, tears will fall. true love is not about feelings.. Its a Commitment. like your willing to prove to her and say. I will Love you. not just Love you cause of how i feel. we all gotta go through struggles which makes us a stronger person.

Never chase happiness..

In Advice about Life, Advice on Letting Go, RELATIONSHIP TIPS on December 7, 2012 at 10:18 am

(I originally posted this on my other WordPress page)

Happiness is like a butterfly; the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder…

— Henry David Thoreau



This quote is one of my favorite quotations of all time. For me, this is all about freedom of someone you like or love that no matter how you love them to be with you, you have to set them free even if it means hurting your own self because SOMEDAY, IT WILL BE OKAY. Ironically, happiness, according to the quote, is described as setting someone free. Do you think we will be happy if we set things/people who we love SOOO MUCH free and away from us?




However, it also helps us realize that if we will force them, there’s a greater chance that forcing them will make them avoid us more as if we have a communicable disease. Hence, we have to set them free and just wait for the right time they will return (if ever); if not, then that would mean we have to enjoy or focus on the other things we have in our life. For an instance, letting go of a gf/bf is such a heartbreaking thing, right? And so you’ll try your best to win them back, without knowing that it will force them to dodge more. SAD REALITY. But if you try yourself on focusing on other things like making a better you, with one step at a time, you will be able to move-on and guess what? Your ex might return if in case, you’re meant to be. Another example is, getting what you really want like being accepted to the school you want to be in. If a situation never allows you, it might be a terrible experience, but, if you will wait for the right time, then a better school might offer you a chance and that would mean a better opportunity.


Ultimately, what I am trying to emphasize is that we never knew what the tide brings so never settle for less and open your eyes to some better views other than what you see because you can achieve happiness, if only, you will allow yourself to be happy and change your negative perception. SOMEDAY, IT WILL BE OKAY 🙂


In Advice on Letting Go, AUTHOR's ADVENTURE, RELATIONSHIP TIPS on August 16, 2012 at 4:34 am




The key to moving on is not to find someone else, but to take a step back and look at the big picture that everyone else saw except you.


Dear diary,

Last night, my cousin texted me and asked for some tips on how to forget someone who you don’t want to forget. Oh dang!

I was like.. !@#@$#%^%&^$&.

It’s harder than a math problem.. well, she knows that I am the the author of the blog “FACING THE RAINBOW”  – wherein I usually give some tips on moving on..

So, I called her what’s the matter. I discovered that her almost 4-year relationship suddenly ended in just a blink. I told her to give me time to answer her question..because…. I was busy with our lola’s bday. Unfortunately, she(my cousin) wasn’t able to attend the bday.



I remember the time when I was the one who was at her place right now.

I remember that forgetting is hard if you yourself hasn’t forgive yourself first before the person who hurt you. So, first thing first, forgive yourself 🙂

next is,in order to forget someone who broke your heart is to heal your hurt ego and fix your self esteem.. 🙂

FORGETTING someone is a long-way process, so it takes time and patience. ^_^


And here are the things to remember:


Healing your Ego shouldn’t be done by revenge or by hating the person because both solutions will let you become a resentful person. Healing your Ego can be done by showing that person that he has a lost a treasure (which is you). This isn’t a quick solution but it’s the one that will surely work. Direct all the anger you have towards motivating yourself to become better and better, sooner or later your news will reach the person who broke your heart and he will realize his loss.


Sometimes people fail to recover from breakups because of self esteem issues and not because of loving the person who dumped them!!


And lastly, Stop thinking about him and LET GO

I know its hard but instead of thinking 100% of the time, make it only 10% then 5% then 0% then stop doing it!!  🙂



Im going to call her back later.. just sharing it first here on my tumbleblog so people who has the same situation with my cousin can also read some tips that might be helpful to them 😉




disclaimer: not the actual  picture,

photo credits:


In Advice on Letting Go, MOTIVATIONAL TIPS, Random, RELATIONSHIP TIPS on August 13, 2012 at 2:13 pm

You’re starting to smile again, because


1) Realizing you’re better off without him. From the way he treats you like trash and leaves you without looking back, you gain the strength to stand for yourself and leave.

2) You built a new life by yourself. Then he came back and told you he still loves you. It shook your conviction a bit but you said no. Because you believe that you should be treated as precious as a gem.

3) You are strong, not because of him but because of you. And you believe that there are lots of men who would make you his own world

How to Get a Man to Chase You

In MOTIVATIONAL TIPS, Random, RELATIONSHIP TIPS on July 11, 2012 at 10:56 am

The dating game is filled with opportunities to play both the role of the hunter and the hunted. While many people enjoy the thrill of chasing down prey, it’s often more desirable to be the one being chased. Learning to magnetized and to be a histrionic to man’s attention is the key to getting a man to chase you


1. ARE YOU? – Let him know you’re interested.  Simple gestures like smiles or nice notes can work to put a smile on his face and make room in his heart. Avoid degrading yourself for the sake of attention.
2. PEEK-A-BOO-  Give him a sneak peek.  Shower him with compliments or praise when he’s feeling low about his job. Reassure him that you’ll be there for him even when it seems like no one else will.

3. THIS IS IT – Offer desirable bait.Remember, there’s a big difference between getting a man to like and you and getting one to chase after you. Being chase-worthy means being worth the sweat and energy spent trying to obtain you.

4. BIG QUESTION MARK– Keep him guessing. Men loves the unpredictable nature of desirable women. Since life is often regimented, make him feel that he can use you for an escape.

5. BE THE FRONT– Stay a few steps ahead of him at all times. Never let him catch up to your pace. The goal is to have him chase you; not let him catch you.

Are You Ready for Love?


A good relationship isn’t a game you play or an ego trip you take. It is about love
and two people. Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and
it can hurt more than we can believe too. When it does not really hurt when that
person did something disappointing to you, but really hurts when you see that
person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly love that person.

Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at
the same time. That’s the reward and that’s the risk. Unless we are willing to
experience it, we will never really know what it’s like to love and be loved.

Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person
can ever have. And there’s a difference between being in love with someone and
loving someone. It’s the difference between a love that’s fickle, wild and
short-lived and one that’s tender and passionate, nurturing and lasts a long time.
The first is easy. The second, the one that really matters to all of us, takes
work — because it’s about keeping a relationship.

Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with each other.
Nobody can read anyone else’s mind. We always presume that our partner knows what
we think and feel. Maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other’s
thoughts but it’s never perfect and takes time to develop.

Getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is blessed. Respect
him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be. Everyone
is pretty and special in his/her own special way. No one is perfect. It is
true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface
of acceptance for each other. True love sees and accepts a person for who
he/she is. It is also true love which makes a person change for the better.

The power of true love to a person is undeniable.

A relationship needs commitments too. What is love without commitments
from each other anyway? It’s like principles and values. Everyone has
them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them.

The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we love.

“Love is like an antique vase. It’s hard to find, hard to get, but easy to break.”

Every day everywhere, people fall in love…but just how many of these
relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships
which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love?
I know hundreds of friends who say the magical words “I love you”…
but more often than not, the truth is just — I am IN love with you.
There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving
someone. If a person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means
that he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love
with you because of the present you.

This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the fairytale lasts.
When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us back to reality, we see
the heartache of such a relationship…where both were only IN love with each other.

But if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that he/she
loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in
the past and who you might be in the future. When he/she says he/she
loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love
him/her too or if you’re in love with the idea of being in love.
It is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking.
Let your heart guide you. May you be blessed on
your soul-searching journey for your soulmate.